Pelvic Heart Integration offers a comprehensive system for understanding and harmonizing the inner and outer worlds of the whole person. Its scope increases our awareness of and gives us tools for healing everything from our ancestral lineage and the developmental issues of childhood to the physical, emotional, interpersonal and sexual issues confronting us as evolving men and women. This Level 1 Training, provides experiential and informational windows into this work suitable for experienced practitioners as well as students who wish to expand their professional skills and personal authenticity.
This unique and powerful synthesis of neo-Reichian breathwork, body work, energy work, psychodrama, trauma work, body reading and Tantra was developed by pioneering bodyworker Dr. Jack Painter as a way for people to experience how their bodies hold both masculine and feminine energy and discover how to harmonize both sides. By focusing our attention on the dynamics of the core duality of male and female within our own bodies, we give ourselves leverage to find unity much more effectively than when we blame others and try to change them. We also discover how to release the characteristic breathing patterns, thoughts, emotions, and body amour that block the free flow of our life force and inhibit our capacity for sensual pleasure and orgasmic release.
We begin by looking at masculine and feminine as an expression of the breath. The masculine and feminine energies in the body also have a directional flow and a cycle of movement. When the masculine and the feminine forces merge and come into contact, whether within one's own body or with another, sexual excitement results, eventually culminating in full body orgasm if the natural flow is unimpeded. But this inner flow, as well as the circuit formed when two individuals come together, loses its integrity when a person's internal connection between heart and the genitals is severed. By working simultaneously on many levels, we increase our ability to free ourselves and hence, each other. The weekend is limited to 12 people so reserve your place NOW!
For more about Pelvic Heart Integration, view the video at
and see What is Pelvic Heart Integration
If you have questions about whether this training is suitable for you,
email Deborah Anapol.
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August 22-27 Training
$900 USD until April 8, then $990 USD for August 22-27 Training;
There is an additional charge for lodging and meals (TBA) to be paid after you are accepted into the training. The training will be held at a lovely private retreat, about 90 minutes north of San Francisco or Oakland Airport. We start with dinner at 6 PM on May 8 and end by 5 PM on May 13. Accommodations are indoor or outdoor camping with 1 private room available, first come first served. We are only taking 12 people so reserve your space now!
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November 19-24 Training
$900 USD until July 8, then $990 USD for November 19-24 Training
There is an additional charge for lodging and meals (TBA) to be paid after you are accepted into the training. The training will be held at a lovely private retreat space, about 2 hours north of San Francisco or Oakland Airport. We start with dinner at 6 PM on November 19 and end by 5 PM on November 24. Accommodations are group dorm, camp indoors or outdoors style. We are only taking 12 people so reserve your place now!
* Additional Pelvic Heart Intergration Trainings *
This NON-RESIDENTIAL retreat will be held at the United Bliss Center. Hours are 10 am to 7pm each day. If you’re coming from out of town, it is possible to stay “dorm style” onsite for a small additional charge. Meals are not provided but there are restaurants in the area. If you’re local and have a spare room or a couch you’d like to make available to other participants, let us know. Contact Deborah at email for more information or to see if this training is appropriate for you. Contact Silja Rehfeldt at email@example.com for more information on location and logistics. Please note that we will only be accepting 12 people into this group and the group will be cancelled if there are no registrations prior to June 1, so sign up now if you are interested. A 50% deposit will reserve your space.
Cost: 690 Euro or 900 USD. You can register at unitedbliss.com/en/pelvic-heart-integration
or contact Silja at firstname.lastname@example.org
For more about Pelvic Heart Integration, see What is Pelvic Heart Integration.
This residential group is being held at Osho Leela which is a small rural intentional community about 2 hours by train from London. It starts at 7PM Oct 22 and ends by 4 PM on October 27.
It is possible to stay overnight on October 27 for no additional charge if desired. We are only accepting 12 people into this training so that everyone can receive personal attention. Sign up now!
Cancellation Policy: Full refund less $150 administrative fee for cancellation requests made in writing prior to July 1. No refunds can be made after this date but you may transfer your registration to another qualified participant at any time.
Register for this one at Osho Leela or email for more information or to see if this training is appropriate for you.
For more about Pelvic Heart Integration, see What is Pelvic Heart Integration.
|Pelvic Heart Integration with Deborah Taj Anapol was deeply healing for me. I have been journeying deeply for 10 yrs now yet found this workshop had much to offer. It turned my inner masculine/feminine from a lived concept to an inner union that is bringing me to a divine new level of wholeness, with less struggle and more moments of clarity and ease. Long term enmeshment triggers in my relationship are dissolving like never before, allowing more freedom AND connection. I have found myself again, or rather found new layers of myself that I (and those around me) am really loving. A reminder that spirituality can be found through the body rather than separate from it. Taj's facilitation is gently profound, affirming, nurturing yet deepening and all from a place of such ease...including the rare but defining quality of personal vulnerability, many thanks Taj for being who you are!
—Annette Baulch, Oztantra, Australia
Nothing is the same after PHI, the mind is more still, and it allows me to go deeper…
This profound opening of my Heart is new and exciting and I have started to work deeper on my attachments and let the love flow in. Before, sometimes anger would fill the void, not now, so for that I am truly thankful.
Wow. What an incredible journey. I feel so touched by each of you in the group and so grateful to you Taj, for what you've given us.
Throughout the week my connection with my partner continued to deepen in ways that we've never experienced before. But on the Monday, I had such an incredible breakthrough. We were dancing to this beautiful spiritual music and as we danced I could feel this very subtle, deep belief (one I saw and mentioned in the workshop) that he was just seducing me. And as I caught it I thought that maybe, for once, I could put that aside and see what happened if I didn't believe that. And there, in that shift of perspective, I felt this energy, this love, move through me. Through my body. Through my heart. And I just started crying and crying. For the first time, ever, I really felt his love for me. I could receive his love. He has said it so many times and to a degree I've felt it, but there has always been this suspicion, at an unconscious level, that I couldn't really trust it. And it was there. All this time. But I have never been able to really let it in.
And then we lay down and as he held me I cried and cried, deep tears of gratitude, realizing that all this time it's been me ... not being able to let all love in. From all my relationships. From life. All this holding in my body. All this contraction, this tension, these core beliefs ... have been stopping the love from moving through me. Separating me from life. From love. From feeling whole. I felt all these energetic bursts as life moved through all of me, through parts of my being that have never been able to feel anything before.
It's been incredible.
And for days I could hardly move. All the tension that I've been holding throughout my life, my being, just dissolved. And to get up and do, felt like I would have to brace, like I've been doing for so long ... and I just couldn't be bothered. It was fantastic!!!!
And we made love in ways that I've never experienced before ... so deeply, with such love, with such ecstatic bliss, with such surrender. Without shame. Without fear. With such connection.
So ... THANK YOU ... to you Taj ... for holding what I wasn't able to see or receive. For your patience and trust. For having walked this path before us and being willing to stand there, with all our projections, and trust our own unfolding … I am so deeply grateful to you for an experience that I won't forget and one that has opened my eyes to Tantra in a way that I had never understood before. And so many teachings that I have resonated with so deeply, suddenly make sense to me in a way that I hadn't been able to hear.
—With all my love & gratitude
Lorella, Somatic Therapist, Australia
with Deborah Taj Anapol & Adam Bauer and friends
November 24, 2013
Join us for a transcendent journey on the wings of sacred chant and moving meditation. Co-create a field for the transmission of spontaneous guidance for tuning into your innate capacity for embodied awareness. Allow the always present ecstatic flow of life force energy to carry you into Sacred Union with your Self, Each Other, and All That Is. This event is open to those whose identities are prepared to step aside in service of Divine Worship with utmost respect, devotion, presence, sensitivity and honoring of All.
Deborah Taj Anapol was introduced to Hindu chant, as well as the practice of zikr and wazifa, over 30 years ago by her Sufi teachers and had the good fortune to serendipitously experience the marriage of kirtan, contact improvisation, and Kashmiri Tantric yoga some years later. Since then she has carried the seed vision of this more fully embodied kirtan within her heart through several decades of leading Tantric Retreats internationally and joyfully invites you to share in the creation of this exploration of sound, erotic connection, and spiritual union.
Adam Bauer is a former monk and long time student of healing, yoga, spirituality and sacred sexuality. A bhakta who has played and led kirtan across America, Canada and India, Adam is also a CTE (Certified Tantra Educator) through the Source School of Tantra.
Cost: $25/single, $20 each for 2 or more partners.
In The Realm of the Senses:
Tantric Retreat Week in Gozo, Malta
Join us for a delightful week of sensual delights -- sunny Mediterranean beaches, delicious local food, private pool, ancient Goddess temple ruins, power places, daily tantric practices focusing on each of the senses, profound circle sharing and lots of time to relax and unwind. Our location is the magical island of Gozo (fly to the larger neighbor island of Malta. Valletta Airport has direct flights from most UK/European cities), close to both Sicily and Tunisia and rumored to be the center of the lost continent of Atlantis and source of the Egyptian mysteries. Gozo is still largely agricultural, producing excellent olives, honey, and wines and site of the world famous Ggantija Temples. Twenty minutes by ferry from cosmopolitan, densely populated Malta, with over 23 ancient temple sites and former home of the Knights Templar, Gozo remains a world apart.
EARLY BIRD SPECIAL!
Payment in USD, GBP or Euro via Paypal, payment by credit card in USD only.
Cancellation Policy: Full refund less $150 admin fee to cancel before June 1.
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Love, Sex, and Freedom
When does sexual intimacy with another contribute to self knowledge and when does it become an obstacle? How can we support our selves and our partners in developing our full potential as friends and lovers? What is the difference between conscious and unconscious sex, conscious and unconscious love? How can we honor diversity and respect individual choices while creating an alchemical container for transformation? Where is the balance between freedom and commitment in intimate relationship? What is the role of sex and love in healing and what is the role of healing in intimate relationship? How do we preserve the energies of mystery and the unknown in long term relationships? How can we create safety in our relationships without sacrificing freedom? What are the distinguishing features of tantric lovemaking? How can masculine and feminine energies be harmonized? If these questions resonate with you, this is an experiential retreat you won’t want to miss! We’ll use breath, movement, massage, meditation, and verbal communication to support you in:
- Becoming more aware of your own inner experience and learning how to stay present with your self and others when you venture outside your comfort zone
- Keeping erotic love alive, joyful, and satisfying by releasing old patterns and automatic behaviors which are not in harmony with your heartfelt desires.
- Growing beyond conditioned gender roles and relationship models which have been passed down for generations but are not contributing to your happiness.
- Opening and connecting all your energy centers and harmonizing masculine and feminine aspects to allow more freedom, fun, and playfulness in your intimate relating
- Resolving core issues that limit your happiness and sabotage your inner peace
This retreat is open to singles, couples, and moresomes of any sexual or relationship orientation.
For more information or to book private sessions in Sydney, email email@example.com
In India a puja is a ceremony in which offerings are made at an altar to one of many Gods or Goddesses – it could be Shiva, Kali, Durga, Parvati, or Ganesha to mention a few favorites. Prayers of love, devotion, and respect are said, candles and incense are lit, and blessings are sought. In the West, another form of puja has evolved in which we engage in practices designed to shift our focus from our minds to our hearts and bodies and heighten our awareness of the divine spark in the human form. This journey into Love and Communion is a heart-opening and sensual experience undertaken within a safe container for honoring everyone’s boundaries. It is followed by a sharing circle which encourages speaking truthfully about all that’s transpired and addressing any questions which arise. In honor of the coming solar eclipse (June 1), the theme of this puja is Fire and Shadow, Light and Dark. This evening gathering is appropriate for singles or partners whatever your sexual or relational orientation. Couples will have the option to stay together throughout the puja circle. There will be no nudity or genital contact at this event.
The Yoga of Love
Yoga is a Sanskrit word sometimes translated as “union.” The word itself is a combination of the Sanskrit words for Sun and Moon, implying the union of masculine and feminine energies. Traditional Hawaiian teachings recognize the harmonizing of masculine and feminine principles as the basis for direct connection to Source, and so it was in India as well. While hatha yoga is best known in the West, the Yoga of Love combines practices from hatha, raja, karma, bhakti, and jnana yoga as well as Reichian-based practices for increasing awareness of and harmony between masculine and feminine forces within the physical and subtle bodies. The result is a solid base from which you can create satisfying intimacy with others. Join us for a delightful experiential weekend at a lovely retreat center. This weekend is appropriate for both individuals and partners of any relationship orientation and utilizes breath, movement, massage, meditation, and verbal communication to support you in:
• Awakening the innocent and natural enjoyment of your entire body
• Cultivating your ability to create and nurture fulfilling erotic love
• Freeing yourself from old patterns and automatic behaviors which are not in harmony with your heartfelt desires and reduce your capacity for pleasure
• Growing beyond conditioned gender roles and relationship models which have been passed down for generations but are not contributing to your happiness.
• Allow more relaxation, fun, and playfulness in your intimate relating
• Resolving core issues that limit your happiness and sabotage your inner peace
Includes delicious meals and indoor or outdoor camping.
Double occupancy rooms available for additional fee
For more information phone (415) 507-1739 or email Deborah Anapol
I'm feeling the call to return to Mother India!
Want to tour sacred sites with a small group of kindred spirits?
Send an email and let us know what places, dates, and activities interest you!
An intensive experience to provide tools and support for rapid transformation or healing for individuals, couples, or small groups. Five 2 hour sessions spaced according to your personal needs over the course of a weekend. $1,200.00
Email for details.
Life is short! Maximize your opportunity for transformation and healing! A whole week of intensive practice in allowing yourself to shift in new directions with a focus on the integration of love, sex, and spirit. For individuals, couples, and small groups. $3,000.00
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"Deborah’s warmth, intuition and knowledge flow from her like a waterfall leaving me yearning to dive even deeper into my own inner work. She has the ability to hold a calm and safe container for the most transforming experiences.”
—Elizabeth, California, Homeopath and Bodyworker
"Deborah is way ahead of the curve in terms of helping us understand what love is, our relationship to it, and our ways of relating from within it. The Seven Natural Laws of Love came to me at a most auspicious time, in the midst of the most heinous and awful family upset that threw me into a deep sense of victimhood and self-pity. On one tear-soaked afternoon, I devoured the words of this book like they were the most divine nectar, and I felt like I was being comforted and returned to a state of grace and greater consciousness."
—Amy Storm, director/creator of The Goddess Retreat